Mother, Wife, and Essentialist who turned her own life experience into a mission to guide others through divorce related life changes with efficiency, confidence and grace.
Years ago, I faced divorce with a newborn. The decade-long battle that followed—spanning two states, three attorneys, a custody evaluation, and challenging dynamics—drained me emotionally and financially. Yet that struggle became my strength. I transformed from reacting in ways that were destroying my soul to intentionally mastering my life and turning that darkness into light for others.
Now, I’m happily remarried, existing without daily conflict, and my child is joyful and grounded. Using my law school education, my negotiation and contract work for two decades in corporate America, and my personal experience, I’ve turned my life story into expertise, helping others avoid the same pitfalls. If you’re confused and overwhelmed, I know that feeling—and I know how to lead you to clarity and control.
Shannon holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Criminal Justice and a Juris Doctor (J.D.) degree, though she is not a licensed attorney and does not provide legal advice. Shannon is a Private Mediator, Certified in Mediation with a focus on Domestic Relations, Custody, and Parenting.
While she has fulfilled the majority of Oregon’s requirements for court-connected mediators, she has chosen to remain in private practice in order to offer clients greater flexibility and personalized services. She also specializes in divorce and co-parenting coaching and assists clients in developing comprehensive and effective parenting plans. Her guidance empowers clients to navigate life transitions effectively, minimize future conflicts, and achieve lasting, equitable resolutions.
After experiencing both the helpful and harmful sides of divorce support, I’ve developed an approach that fills the gap between legal advice and therapy. I’m not a lawyer or therapist, and I don’t provide legal advice. I’m here to be the clear-headed guide you wish you’d had from the beginning.
I believe that divorce and all that stems from it does not have to destroy people. With the right support at the right time, people can navigate these difficult transitions while preserving their integrity and protecting their children.
I want to keep people out of destructive legal battles through Coaching, Mediation, or with my Parenting Plan Blueprint process. My clients often save tens of thousands of dollars by getting support early instead of letting things escalate.
When you work with me, expect honest feedback, practical strategies, and someone who genuinely understands what you’re going through. I’m about helping you create outcomes you’ll be proud of for years to come.
After experiencing both the helpful and harmful sides of divorce support, I’ve developed an approach that fills the gap between legal advice and therapy. I’m not a lawyer or therapist, and I don’t provide legal advice. I’m here to be the clear-headed guide you wish you’d had from the beginning.
I believe that divorce and family transitions don’t have to destroy people. With the right support at the right time, people can navigate difficult transitions while preserving their integrity and protecting their children.
My approach combines practical strategy with emotional awareness. Instead of just talking through feelings or focusing only on legal logistics, I help you untangle emotional overwhelm from practical decisions so you can think clearly and act intentionally.
I want to keep people out of destructive legal battles through divorce coaching, private mediation, and my Parenting Plan Blueprint process. My clients often save tens of thousands of dollars by getting support early instead of letting things escalate.
When you work with me, expect honest feedback, practical strategies, and someone who genuinely understands what you’re going through. I’m about helping you create outcomes you’ll be proud of for years to come.
Today, I empower individuals to turn what could be their most challenging period into a testament to their resilience and growth. My clients don’t merely “survive” their divorces—they emerge with greater assurance, confidence, and self-reliance than they had at the outset.
I’ve seen what happens when people get the right support: They stay in control of their own story. They create agreements that reflect their values. They protect their children from unnecessary conflict. Most importantly, they feel proud of how they showed up during one of life’s most challenging transitions.
If you’re navigating divorce, co-parenting challenges, or any significant transition marked by conflict, you don’t have to tackle it alone. You don’t need to choose between costly legal disputes and piecing things together on your own. There’s a smarter path: accessing the guidance you need to move forward with confidence and growth.
Let’s move through this together with discernment and intention
During our free discovery call, we’ll assess your specific circumstances and goals. Generally, mediation works best when both parties want to voluntarily collaborate, while coaching is ideal when you need individual support to navigate decisions and communication strategies through a divorce or co-parenting process
I work with people across the spectrum—from amicable separations to high-conflict situations. My approach adapts to your reality. If your situation requires legal intervention, I can help you prepare to work with attorneys more effectively.
Unlike therapy, we focus on practical solutions and forward movement rather than processing the past. Unlike legal services, and where possible, we prioritize collaboration and preservation of relationships, rather than adversarial positioning. You get the emotional support you need with the strategic clarity that moves you forward.
